Therapist’s Role
The therapist’s role, as prescribed by this model,
includes an element of paradox. The therapist is asked to support while
challenging, to attack while encouraging, to sustain while undermining. A
crucial conceptual distinction is necessary here to protect the therapist from
confusion or hypocrisy: he is requested to be for the people in need of
help, against the system of transactions that cripple them.
The
first task for the structural family therapist is to enter the system that is
in need of change and to establish a working relationship. This requires a
certain degree of accommodation to the system’s rules—but not up to a point in
which the therapist’s leverage to promote change is lost. Too much challenge to
the system’s rules at the entry stage would lead to the therapist’s dismissal;
too much accommodation would void his input by absorbing it into homeostasis.
The therapist has to find the right equation of accommodation/challenge for
each particular family through a process of probing, advancing, and withdrawing
that guides his entrance and at the same time gives him clues about the family
structure.
So
the structural family therapist is actively engaged in a dance with the family
right from the beginning of their contact. There is little room in this model
for neutral listening or floating attention. The therapist approaches the
family with a series of initial hypotheses built on the basis of minimal intake
information, and proceeds to test, expand, and correct those hypotheses as he
joins the family. His attention is selectively oriented toward process and away
from content; he is more interested in how people relate than in what they have
to say, and he listens to content mostly as a way of capturing the language of
the family, the \, metaphors that will later help him catch the ears of his
clients. As processes and themes unravel, the therapist’s selective attention
privileges some of them and discards the others. A map of the family begins to
emerge in him—a map depicting positions, alliances, hierarchies, complementary
patterns.
Soon
the dancer turns into stage director, creating scenarios where problems are
played according to different scripts. The embedding of the symptom in family
transactions is explored and highlighted. Family members are invited to talk to
each other, or excluded from participation. Distances and positions are prescribed,
alternative arrangements tried. The therapist-director uses whatever knowledge
he is gaining about the actors to create situations that will uncover hidden
resources or confirm suggested limitations. He is looking for the specific
ways in which this system is keeping its homeostasis, so that he can disrupt
them and force a new equilibrium at a higher level of complexity. But he is
also searching for the system’s strengths that will indicate possible
directions for his challenge. The stage director is out to make trouble for the
cast.
While
the model prescribes activity, initiative, and directiveness, it also warns
against centrality. The therapist is supposed to organize a scenario and start
the .action, but then to sit back as a spectator for a while. If he becomes too
central the system can not fully display its limitations and potentialities;
the therapist himself gets trapped in a stereotyped position where he will most
probably be absorbed by homeostasis. He needs to be mobile, to constantly
redefine his position, displacing himself from one role to another, from one
alliance to another, from one challenge to the next—while at the same time
maintaining a focus, a thread, a relevant theme connecting all of his moves
together and to the presenting problem. In this the structural family therapist
resembles a camera director in a television studio, who decides to air the close-up
“take” from one of the cameras. Far from indulging in self-praise for the
beauty of the achieved picture, he is already planning the next -knowing also
that from time to time the total picture will be needed as a reminder to the
audience of what it is all about.
In short, the role of the therapist is to move around within the
system, blocking existing stereotyped patterns of transactions and fostering
the development of more flexible ones. While constantly negotiating the
immunological mechanism/ isms of the family organism in order to be accepted,
he behaves as a strange body to \ which the organism has to accommodate by
changing and growing.
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